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“Why Marriages Are Failing And The Solutions”

The actual reason there are higher rate of
divorce
If you might be looking for far fetched
causes of divorce, look no more and look
within you, it’s very glaring to your face,
but because of society fame and wealth,we
ignore these reasons and so begin to
scramble for unfounded truth. I will outline
some of the reasons you can add yours,of
course some of us know the truth, you
know sometimes it is so bitter to hear the
truth when we think of the advantages of
our exploits.
1. Incompatibility : most people go into
marriage knowing from the onset that they
are not meant for each other, yet because
of what they stand to benefit from their
partners, they seem to close their eyes to
the reality facing them. I have heard of
story of folks who lost their lives because
they journeyed on in the relationship even
when the signal is red.
Rule 1. Run from someone whom you know
in the depths of your heart that you can
not be able to live with. Stop looking for
deliverance from men of God Almighty to
help make both of you compatible. If it
didn’t work from the beginning, it won’t
work in the long run.
2. Overused of se x . Many have gone into
marriage because they thought they could
manage their partners bad attitude. Just
because he or she knows how to dig it or
she is an expert in bed doesn’t make
marriage work. You met her at the club
and during the intercourse, wow, she took
you to the moon and back again to the
Stars and you saw your ancestors and
even visited the goddess of love won’t
make the marriage work. Se x is only a
slice of marriage. Marriage is two
becoming one person.
That means they will be agreeing on plans,
purposes and vision for the family. They
will have to walk together for the common
development of the dual. And so, after the
se x you will come back to your senses
and realise that you are still human who
needs love and affections. Only the one
who is ready to compromise with your
weaknesses can help you stand on your
feet when you fall.
Rules 2. Enjoy se x while it lasts, but never
compromised se x with marriage. Marriage
calls for decisions. You are going to need
both planning and se x to have a romantic
love relationship.
3. For the money . This is the biggest
reasons many fail in marriage. Because of
the height of poverty and hunger in our
time many think that to escape the tides,
they need to swim against the tides, no
and I shout out to you, hell not. Here is
where choice comes in, if you can not
make the right choice when you have
nothing, there is no possibility of you
getting it right when you have become rich
with cash. Money can not solve your
problems, it only exposes your weaknesses
and stupidity which was hidden because
you had no loud speakers. Here, money
has come and you want to express yourself
and explore your options. The same traps
which led you into your contract marriage
will also lead you into diverse lusts and
negative desires which will eventually
crash your marriage.
Rules 4. Learn more about decisions
before you embark on a fairy tale
adventure. The love of money is the root of
all evil. Not money itself. Money is
good,but money seeks to control the
handler, if you have not been trained in
the act. When you marry for the money be
sure that you are going to need lots of it
to keep the marriage sailing, Because
that’s the wind carrying you on.
Lack of home wisdom: Now, this is the last
but not the least. No matter how beautiful
you are and how educated you have
become,if a woman or man does not know
how to build their home it will eventually
crash falling down. You must learn how to
carry yourself and your family. You must
know what works for you and your family.
It’s not what works for the other people.
We are different for a reason. And we are
drown to different passion. Your family
settings are different from my family’s.
You need to discover it and keep applying
it in every situation you face. No one is
promising you a marriage without
disagreement there will be times when you
will feel like giving up, that is when you
should remember what worked for you in
the past. Keep applying them and you will
soon discover that there is nothing new.
That the Almighty God calls history to
repeat itself, but because the mind of the
sons of men are full of darkness, they
miss their visitation.
Before you make your steps acknowledge
that you are a creature and not the
creator.. commit your ways into the hands
of the all seeing eye and he will establish
your paths in the name of the lord Christ
Jesus. Amen

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